Tuesday, April 21, 2009

Sometimes it just comes down to...

Sex. Yep, sometimes you have to ask if it is ok when your husband has chemo if you can have sex. And the answer is...well hope you will never have to ask...hehehe.

Clark is feeling better and is in fact talking about doing family activities between now and his next chemo treatment. This is a new family norm and it is kind of nice.

Clark was blessed last night to speak with someone from our church who has been battling cancer off/on for the last 5 years. This man shared some of his experiences with Clark and it was so uplifting for Clark to hear.

We went to a chemo class today. Information overload.

Cleaning up the rest of the paperwork clutter-

We got the Cobra insurance worked out for now and the disability. It will take a few weeks but everything will get caught up again-Thank God we have savings.

We meet with the attorney later this week to set up a trust (as if there will be any assets left after this) for Emma and guardianship. We have asked my brother and Diana to be primary guardians in case something happens to Clark and I. And then some of Clark's best friends come next (and of course you know who are). We will hope to have power of attorney done as well. Stuff that should have been done long ago and sometimes it just comes down to something like this happening...

2 comments:

  1. Smart thinking and I'm going to refrain from asking the verdict on the "S" subject. Hearing all of this is encouraging -- Keep it up!

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  2. I don't want to know the answer to the S question...but I think it HAS to be a good sign if both are looking to know if it is ok....that must mean Clark is feeling close to human! Keep the faith, keep loving each other and keep asking for help when you need it...and even when you think you don't!

    Praying for you always

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